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brettdale
29-05-2011, 01:05 PM
There is a new catch phrase that is setting the Feminist
blogosphere a buzz. It's called "Mansplaining" it was
first used a couple of years ago, but in the past six
months it has taken off, and is widely and wrongly used
in debates.

Mansplaining means you are beginning condensing,
patronizing and feel that you are correct because you
are the man in the conversation.

How utterly ridiculous that concept is. It takes any
robust debate down to the gutter level, and is equivalent
to little kids who would scream out "Your
an idiot" during arguments with their classmates.

If there is a debate on any subject, it doesn't have to be
political, it could even be about Apples or Pears, if you
have a different opinion, a different point of view with
a poster, and that poster is female and you are
male, the word "MANSPLAINER" will be shouted
from the rooftops from anyone who disagrees
with your point of view.

For example just the other day there was a debate on the
always interesting "hand mirror" site, about if the Hamilton Casino
is being honest about wanting to open 24/7 to attract high
end punters from Asia, or are they really after, the local's
money, which could lead to social economic problems.

I took the view that they are after the Visiting Asian Market,
while the poster "Stargazer" believe this wasn't the case and
they were after the local market, thus causing problems for
the local community.

Well, let the Mansplaining comments begin, apparently I was
Mansplaining, and then I was Mansplaining again by explaining
that I just have a different point of view.

Of course it wasn't a case of mansplaining, I was just
pointing out my thoughts on the subject, like the
poster "Stargazer" was pointing out their's.

I wonder how the posters would of commented if I had
of been a female? they couldn't use the term Mansplainer,
and that is where using the term Mansplainer falls down.


You are basically saying any male that is debating a female
on any given topic is a Mansplainer, and that is not even close to
reality.

Oh for the record, I thought the poster
"Stargazer" was male, although it didnt matter to me what gender
she was.

It matters to some people though.

Te Whetu
29-05-2011, 11:23 PM
Here's a thought, Stargazer didn't attack you (as opposed to debating the issue) because you're a man.

Stargazer attacked you because you had an opposing view and she's the type to attack the person not the issue. If you had been a woman then she would have attacked something else, in your above scenario I'd suggest she would have likely attacked your political persuasion. There are a lot of people like ol' Stargazer out there and they come from both genders...

Just a thought...

Te Whetu

janner
30-05-2011, 08:07 PM
Put it down to all of the totally ridiculous adverts on TV .

They are always explaining in deep voices about MAN this or MAN that..

From our DRIVING to PHOOPHOO under the arms..

Lizard
30-05-2011, 08:16 PM
I completely understand the term "mansplaining"...

... however, my husband can give you a much better definition of "womansplaining"... :D

...fortunately, after 22 years of it, we can both have a good laugh.

Sexism is rife. He says things like "you ring and ask cos they won't realise how smart you are and they'll give away too much"... and I do it and laugh because the world will always operate on misplaced stereotypes. Hey, at least a woman can get a loan these days!

janner
30-05-2011, 08:33 PM
Yeah.. But they still can not urinate into their navels :-))

Lizard
30-05-2011, 09:10 PM
Yeah.. But they still can not urinate into their navels :-))

Gee, you men just keep raising the bar for success beyond our reach....
:eek2::D

brettdale
30-05-2011, 09:47 PM
Here's a thought, Stargazer didn't attack you (as opposed to debating the issue) because you're a man.

Stargazer attacked you because you had an opposing view and she's the type to attack the person not the issue. If you had been a woman then she would have attacked something else, in your above scenario I'd suggest she would have likely attacked your political persuasion. There are a lot of people like ol' Stargazer out there and they come from both genders...

Just a thought...

Te Whetu

Good points, I was attacked on the same issue, by the various posters there.

STRAT
02-06-2011, 06:48 PM
Yeah.. But they still can not urinate into their navels :-))Maybe not. But she can pee on yours if you reckon thats fun :D

STRAT
02-06-2011, 06:49 PM
Hey, at least a woman can get a loan these days!If her Portfolio is big enough.

brettdale
03-06-2011, 10:55 PM
LOL womansplaining.