I sincerely hope you are not serious. I worked with men and couples for thirty of the last fifty years ,and specifically with men involved in Familoy Violence for twenty, and you are talking absolute nonsense. If this is your honest position, I stronly encourage you to engage with the menz movement. We welcome rednecks and treehuggfers, antivaxers, mandate opposers and family Drs who jab anyone they can catch. Straight, gay, trans - whatever!
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