Originally Posted by
Joshuatree
"They had no motivation in life" there in lies the problem. Idle minds run down ones self esteem and confidence, self worth. Escapism, denial, unloved maybe. A core belief of "im useless""im unlovable" etcetc, false beliefs of course. Depression highly likely. Sounds like alcohol was involved too when you mention the urination. Was the pot CBD or weak or potent? How many times a day did they smoke , drink. Sometimes just listening and reflecting back to people can help people to help themselves out of a hole. Antidepressants can work for some. But blaming cannabis or alcohol or P or heroin for someones underlying illness's, mental health issues etc is pretty ignorant imo. You had a job to manage a rental, tough being a student yourself and having to take on that responsibility dealing with unreliable tenants thats for sure. No room for empathy there or much life experience to use .